Dick and Harry are questionable)having 40 messages each day can make things really confusing, I know that girls want the best option possible, and this is why I think it is better to let them chose without messaging will close the door for mind games and time wasting.
Who should make the first move in online dating
It works both ways but it takes a little bit of the uncertainty out of the convesation when the lady approaches you.
You at least know they don't think you are a complete waste of time.
You make some good points indeed samyred,.to mention it would save some time for both parties concerned,...maybe,....it's the chivery thing,....which has been handed down from generations,where the man is the "take control" type thing,..in this day and age,with more women wanting to be in control of thier own destiny's it would seem like there would be more women making the first contact, don't ya think ? I have had a few women contact first,...sadly though,most have been from other country's,...wanting little more than a free meal ticket,lol,....
I personally think it would be really kewl if more women made first contact,.......a good post samyred,hope to see another one from you,.....later. I dont mind if they di, but I am usually the one who does.
It helps to recognize when she wants a kiss, and to be able to acknowledge the sexual tension. I'm a bit traditional so I usually ask girls out but I've been lucky enough to be asked out by girls too. I used to get embarrassed when I was younger if they said no but I don't anymore.
Dudes that wait too long are put into Lets just be friends land. It's a bit of a rush actually going up to a beautiful girl and asking her out.When she smiles and is happy you did it is a great feeling.And if she says no you should be confident enough to know that it is her loss. I'm aware of nothing stating that the man has to make the first move.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.