In fact, a person can have slept with dozens, even than how many tricks and secret techniques you’ve learned.It’s not just about being able to give the Transylvanian Twist or the Swirly-Go-Round.In fact, some “killer” sex techniques (especially any recommended by Cosmo) will more likely get you thrown out of bed instead of being hailed as a godly lover.
The idea that nothing counts besides a penis going into a vagina has led to a brilliant bit of rules-lawyering by teens who want to get around pesky “virginity pledges” or religious restrictions against pre-marital sex by referring to “technical” virginity.
Thus, to many, it is possible to be a virgin who has had oral and anal sex, who’s given (or received) hand-jobs and tit-jobs or engaged in mutual masturbation, rolled around naked with hordes of others and has had more sexual experience than their fellows.
It only “counts” when the penis has managed to ejaculate into a vagina.
One can thus be a virgin and yet give the most amazing head a person could ever receive. The first step to great sex – whether you’ve had hundreds of partners or partners – is to understand that there’s more to sex than Tab A into Slot B, Repeat As Needed.
Side note: This, by the way, is a very heteronormative definition of virginity; anal sex evidently does not “count” for women… And yet many gay men inexperienced; the ones who have had next to no sexual contact whatsoever, whether it be kissing, playing with another person’s junk, dry-humping or even having someone acknowledge one’s erection without pointing and laughter. This is one of the aspects that trips up many virgins.
They assume that because they haven’t had the all-important First Time that they’re going to be crap in bed…never stopping to think that having had sex isn’t going to magically make you into a black-belt Fuck-Fu master and Kama Sutra scholar.Just because someone has had sex before doesn’t mean that they’re going to be a great lay. If you're looking for a particular comic, the search engine can help you out!The comics are presented here in reverse chronological order.There’s a lot of anxiety surrounding being a virgin.