I continued dating James because he was a big handsome man and he made me feel tiny.
feel free to share your thoughts in the comments, I’ll share a few of mine: 1.) I’m always fascinated when PSP’s are forced to justify who they are attracted to.
It just perpetuates the myth that +size women don’t “deserve” to be with certain types of people.
(see: “Superficial Fat Chicks & Other Myths” for my detailed thoughts on this).
2.) The simple fact is, I date who approaches me– and big men rarely approach me.
Most of the time, its big men who aren’t checking for a Plus Size Princess, but for some reason that seems to be okay with everyone.
Just wondering: why aren’t male dating preferences scrutinized as women’s?
3.) Thinking back on my time dating James, I actually was a hypocrite.
I was a hypocrite because I knew on our first date that I wasn’t interested in him, but I kept dating him for three weeks.
“You’re such a cute little thing,” James said, as he draped his arms around me in line at the movies.